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Writer's pictureStacie Zaan

How do I know if I'm ready for a Vacation?



Wondering if you’re ready for that vacation you have been putting off?


It’s a question I hear a lot. And the truth is, if you've never traveled before, leaping into a big vacation can seem intimidating.


We all dream of escaping the daily grind and taking a well deserved vacation. However, deciding whether you are truly ready for a vacation involves more than just longing for a break.

It’s completely understandable, too. No one wants to put all that effort in only to have a so-so vacation or not come back rejuvenated. But don’t let that stop you!


It requires careful evaluation of various factors to ensure you can make the most of your time away.

If you’ve been feeling like you’re ready for a vacation, you probably are getting close!


To help you decide, today I’m sharing five ways to know if you’re ready for your first, or next, vacation. In this post we will explore key indicators that can help you determine if you are ready to embark on vacation and make the most out of your experience.


This way you can focus on what needs to get done – without wasting time and energy.

(And if you’re not ready yet, you’ll know what you need to do!)


Let’s dig in.




5 Ways You Know You're Ready for a Vacation


Only you can say for sure whether you’re ready for a vacation. As I mentioned above, if it’s been heavily on your mind lately, you’re probably in a good place to start researching your options, at the very least. You may even find that you're more prepared for it than you think you are.


To help you decide, here are a few tell-tale signs that show you're more than ready to take a vacation.



Readiness Sign #1: Physical and Mental Exhaustion


Has someone suggested you try taking a vacation or a break?


This is why it's so helpful to have travel advisors who understand the need for a vacation. One of the most obvious signs that you are ready for a vacation is feeling physically and mentally exhausted.

When I first started traveling, I didn't feel I was ready for it but once I started, there was no turning back. I just didn’t want to take a vacation, I needed it. It completely resets my soul. If you find yourself constantly fatigued, experiencing burnout, or struggling to concentrate on your work, it may be a clear indication that you need a break.


I worked in the healthcare field for about a decade before I took my first, well deserved, vacation. I was scared to use my PTO, what if something came up. Didn’t want to turn my request in, what if they said no. And I was worried about work piling up, or what if they thought I wasn’t needed anymore. None of that happened though.


Look at me now, not only am I traveling taking vacations, I’m a travel advisor helping others plan the vacations of their dreams.


Feeling drained for an extended period can have detrimental effects on your overall well-being, making it essential to prioritize self-care and recharge.


Always remember this, you can’t pour from an empty cup.


Readiness Sign #2: You Need to Accomplish Key Responsibilities


You may not feel it now, but your intuition about needing a vacation will likely steer you in the right direction.


Before taking a vacation, it is crucial to evaluate whether you have fulfilled your essential responsibilities.


So if you think you’re ready for a vacation but struggle with worrying about leaving work behind, it can be hard to admit that they can get things done without you there for a period of time.


I didn’t think I could take a vacation without the department burning down. Even taking just a day or two I felt I needed to take my laptop and work. But when I took a long vacation, and had no wifi available, no what happened? The department was still standing when I returned. Not saying there weren’t small flames I had to put out or play a super quick catch up. But they handled things while I was away, and they were appreciative of me returning and taking back my work load.


Here are a few ways to push past it:

  • First, ensure you have completed any imminent deadlines.

  • Next, hand over tasks to colleagues if necessary.

  • Finally, organize your workload efficiently.

Now, by wrapping up essential tasks beforehand, you can enjoy your vacation without unnecessary stress or the fear of unfinished business lingering in your mind.


In the words of Maya Angelou, “Each person deserves a day away in which no problems are confronted, no solutions are searched for. Each of us needs to withdraw from the cares which will not withdraw from us.”


Readiness Sign #3: Financial Preparedness


Sometimes big decisions come easy. Vacations often require a financial investment, which means it’s crucial to assess your financial readiness before embarking on a trip.


That can feel like you are never going to be financially ready for a vacation, or that a vacation is out of your budget at the moment, but many times it’s more attainable than you originally thought.

So when that happens, evaluate your budget and determine if you have enough funds to cover travel expenses, accommodations, meals, and any additional activities you plan to engage in. If you need to save up for your desired vacation, consider setting aside a specific amount each month until you reach your goal. Forces are out there larger than you and being financially prepared ensures you can fully enjoy your time away without worrying about the money.


When I was much younger, and my funds significantly less, I would take a trip with the exact amount needed. You could have called me young and foolish since I left no room in the budget for emergencies or extras. I now feel it’s imperative to include those in any budget. Always leave room for the what ifs.





Readiness Sign #4: You already have support at work or at home


Now that we’ve covered some of the mindset signs that will help you determine if you’re ready for a vacation, it’s time to cover some practical reasons.


Before you take a vacation, there are some things you’ll need to have in place. It makes little sense to take a vacation without the right plans. Taking time off work is more enjoyable and stress-free when you know you have adequate coverage and support in your absence.


Here’s how you’ll know that your vacation will be a huge success: Talk to the others and if necessary, delegate.


We have all heard how PTO stands for Prepare The Others. Talk to your supervisor and/or colleagues to ensure they are aware of your vacation plans and discuss how your workload will be managed.

This isn’t about pushing your work off on others. It’s about making sure nothing falls through the cracks or that the workload piles up and becomes almost unmanageable when you return.


Here’s what I mean:


Make sure whoever will be covering knows what’s going on and what is needed. If there are meetings, tasks or deadlines that need to be met during your absence, it’s in your best interest to make sure they have it covered. You will likely be the one to not be in the best light if things fall down.





Delegate tasks or collaborate with team members to ensure a smooth workflow during your absence. Knowing that your work responsibilities are in capable hands will allow you to relax and fully enjoy your vacation.


I have had issues with delegating in the past. I went on a two and a half week vacation and unfortunately, did not do a good enough job of making sure others were following up and taking care of things while I was gone. So upon my return, there were so many emails and voicemails for me, that the older ones got pushed off or were deleted due to them being old. Ended up being a lot more work for me to explain to people why they didn’t get call backs or follow ups on their emails.


I have now learned that delegating and asking for help when you are planning to be out is a good thing for everyone involved. Those who are covering for you will be prepared and knowledgeable, and when you return, you won’t be overwhelmed by the piles that can occur.


When going on vacation and delegating tasks, there are several things you should consider to ensure a smooth transition and minimize any potential disruptions.


If you’re not quite there yet, here are a few things you can do when working on delegation before your vacation:


  • Plan and prioritize: Make a detailed list of all your responsibilities and taste, categorizing them based on their urgency and importance. Determine which tasks can be postponed until your return and which ones require immediate attention. This will help you identify the key areas that need delegation.

  • Identify competent individuals: Assess the skills and capabilities of your colleagues or team members to determine who can handle the delegated tasks efficiently. Consider their experience, knowledge, and availability to ensure they are equipped to handle the responsibilities in your absence.

  • Communicate clearly: Schedule a meeting or have individual conversations with the individuals you have selected to delegate tasks to. Clearly communicate your expectations, provide detailed instructions, and explain any specific deadlines or goals. Ensure that they understand their roles and responsibilities, and address any questions or concerns they may have.

  • Empower and provide resources: Delegate authority along with responsibility. Give your team members the necessary authority and decision making power to handle tasks in your absence. Also, ensure they have access to resources, tools, and information they need to successfully complete the delegated tasks. Provide any relevant documentation, contact information, or access credentials they might require.


  • Designate a point person: Have a back up contact who can address any unforeseen issues or emergencies in your absence. Make sure this person is aware of their responsibilities and has the necessary authority to make decisions.

By following these steps, you can effectively delegate tasks and responsibilities, allowing you to enjoy your vacation while ensuring that work continues smoothly in your absence.


Readiness Sign #5: Emotional Readiness


Now, I can hear you saying, if I’ve been feeling like I’m ready for a vacation, I probably am getting close.


And that’s absolutely true. Having said that, while physician and logistical aspects are important, it’s equally essential to assess your emotional readiness for a vacation. Everyone has to have a plan for taking a vacation. Because it’s going to happen!


Nothing comes easy, right?

Consider your personal circumstances and emotional well-being before deciding to go on a trip. If you are dealing with a major life event, experiencing high levels of stress or emotional turmoil, it may be better to postpone your vacation until you feel more emotionally stable.


Taking a break when you are emotionally ready will enable you to fully embrace the experience and make lasting memories.


Standing in between you and your vacation: The Doubt Edition


Usually, the biggest thing standing in the way of your wildest dreams isn’t something external. It’s actually doubt about destinations.

Some common concerns I hear from my clients are:

  • I’ll get seasick on a cruise

  • Disney World is just for kids

  • There is nothing to do at an all inclusive resort

Does any of that sound familiar?


The best way to clear those concerns up is to speak with a travel advisor and get clear on your “why”. Why do you want to go on vacation in the first place? They can help clear up any misconceptions you have about potential destinations.


Sometimes the negative things you hear about a destination are not the usual and can be outliers.


They say that if you have the outcome you expected, you tell one person. And if it exceeds your expectation, you tell three people. But if you have a poor outcome, you tell ten. So the negative outcomes may not be as prevalent as it may seem. Speaking to a professional travel advisor can help you dispel any misconceptions you have on a destination, and give you the actual facts regarding a potential vacation spot.


Standing in between you and your vacation: Real-Life Obstacles


Real-life obstacles are some of the most obvious challenges you’re going to face with taking a vacation.

We’ve already covered common obstacles in this post, but you likely will have some challenges that are unique to your situation, resources, and abilities.


The good news is, there is a vacation suited for everyone.


So in addition to what I shared above, I recommend contacting a travel advisor and working with them to help you plan an amazing vacation.


And remember, when you’re ready, you’re ready.


If you find that you aren’t excited about it, you know that you’re not quite ready to take a vacation. And that’s okay, just keep setting the stage for it and you’ll get there.


Want some help on planning a vacation? I am ready to help you plan the vacation of your dreams so you can have long lasting memories.




That’s a wrap!

I hope this post has helped clarify that you are ready for a vacation.


If you're feeling unsure or overwhelmed, remember that when I first started traveling, everyone told me that I shouldn’t go.


Now look at me, I’m a travel advisor, and most importantly, I am a traveler.


Deciding if you are ready to take a vacation requires careful consideration of various factors. By evaluating your physician and mental state, ensuring key responsibilities are fulfilled, assessing your financial preparedness, confirming support at work, and considering your emotional well-being, you can make an informed decision.


Remember, vacations are meant to rejuvenate and provide a break from the daily routine. By taking the time to assess your readiness, you can make the most out of your vacation and return refreshed, recharged, and ready to tackle new challenges.


Have a question about anything I covered today? I am available here Fairytale Journeys by Stacie and I also love Instagram fairytale_journeys_by_stacie or Facebook FTJTravelbyStacie where I’m always sharing content to keep you up-to-date on everything happening in travel and vacations.





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miss.cristabel
Jun 14, 2023

Great post! My problem is I’m always emotionally ready for a vacation, but not always financially!

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