Forever now, we’ve been hearing that honeymoons are the best, maybe even the ONLY vacation that matters. And that they are easy to plan and everything will just fall into place. I had the same message, selling the same pitch, given to me as well. And since everyone seems to be saying it, it must be true. Right?
Uhh… no.
Your honeymoon is the perfect opportunity to celebrate your love and create cherished memories that will last a lifetime. To ensure your honeymoon is truly unforgettable, careful planning and consideration are essential.
In this blog post, we’ll share expert tips to help you plan a honeymoon that surpasses your wildest dreams. From choosing the perfect romantic destination to creating a personalized itinerary, let’s embark on a journey to create the honeymoon of your dreams.
I think most of this advice is coming from a place of good intentions. But it’s easy advice. And not only does one specific type of honeymoon or destination not work for everyone, there are definitely better options out there for each individual couple.
Also, how do you know that the “experts” are following their own advice? Or that they’re getting great results from what they suggest?
It seems to me that you can spend a lot of time feeling frustrated or like a failure because your honeymoon wasn’t what you expected. Other people’s ideals won’t work for you when you’re not the problem!
I know because back when I was planning my honeymoon, I tried putting myself in what one would think would be a typical honeymoon, and I just didn’t see ourselves having great results with that.
In fact, we would likely have been miserable and not have great memories to look back on. Was it a perfect time with what we did? No, there were some things that weren’t that great. But it did give us great stories to talk about. And overall, we have great memories of it, and that is what matters.
I also didn’t feel like I would have been authentic if I ended up with a destination that I really didn’t want to go to in the first place.. And believe me, you can tell when you’re not being authentic.
Always remember, it's your honeymoon, and it should be what you want it to be.
Define Your Honeymoon Vision
Before diving into the details, take some time as a couple to discuss your vision for the honeymoon. Consider your shared interests, preferred activities, and desired ambiance.
Are you dreaming of a secluded beach paradise, a culturally immersive adventure, or a luxurious urban escape?
Defining your vision will guide your decision-making process and help you choose a destination that aligns with your desires.
Here’s the thing. Not having a vision isn’t a good idea because it leaves too much open and you can’t narrow things down. Time and energy will be wasted and you may end up on a trip that you don’t really want to be on.
Wouldn’t you rather spend your time doing something that feels like it’s more you, that’s also in a destination you want to see? Well, now you can. And it doesn’t have to be confusing or overwhelming.
Consult with a Travel Advisor
I got clear about my ultimate goals: to have a stress free experience planning my honeymoon and to enjoy the time I spend on the trip, instead of worrying about every detail.
Engaging the services of a travel advisor who specializes in honeymoons can be a game-changer. They have in-depth knowledge of romantic destinations, insider tips, and connections that can elevate your honeymoon experience.
A travel advisor will work closely with you to understand your preferences, recommend accommodations, plan activities, and handle all the logistical details, ensuring a stress-free and unforgettable honeymoon.
We decided to use a travel advisor to assist with our honeymoon. Yes, I could have taken on the task completely myself, but I wanted to make sure there were other eyes on this trip so I could focus on other things. I worked with the travel advisor, making sure I communicated what we were looking for, what we wanted to get out of it, and the overall feel for the honeymoon. Our advisor was able to take all that and help us craft the perfect honeymoon.
Research and Select the Perfect Destination
Here’s what I did to find the perfect destination.
With countless romantic destinations around the world, selecting the right one can feel overwhelming.
Research various options and consider factors such as weather, accessibility, local attractions, and cultural experiences. The time of the year will definitely have an impact on your choice.
Whether you’re envisioning the breathtaking landscapes of Bali, the historic charm of Rome, or the idyllic islands of the Maldives, finding a destination that resonates with you as a couple is key.
After going through countless destinations trying to narrow it down we were able to come to a conclusion. One destination was not for us. We ultimately decided on a cruise. A fifteen day cruise to Hawaii to be exact.
For some that won’t seem as romantic and others will think it’s a boring pick. For us it was perfect. We had enough at sea time to relax and just spend time together. And while we were in port we were able to have multiple adventures and enjoy the local areas.
It was exactly what we had envisioned and what we needed.
Create a Personalized Itinerary
Once you’ve chosen your destination, it’s time to craft a personalized itinerary that reflects your unique interests. Your travel advisor will be able to assist with this part of the planning.
Consider a balance of relaxation and adventure, and include activities that resonate with the both of you. Whether it’s exploring hidden beaches, indulging in couples’ spa treatments or embarking on exciting excursions, infuse your itinerary with moments that create lasting memories.
Choosing a location that can offer many different types of activities can be very valuable. Especially if you want to do something different each day, or what plenty of options to choose from. All inclusive resorts, theme parks, and cruises can all offer that. Lots of activities and opportunities for down time as well.
Prioritize Privacy and Romance
Privacy and romance are essential elements of an unforgettable honeymoon.
Select accommodations that offer seclusion, breathtaking views, and intimate amenities. Consider private villas, overwater bungalows, or boutique hotels that specialize in catering to couples.
Create special moments like candlelit dinners, sunset cruises, or private excursions tailored exclusively for you.
Keep in mind, one person's level of privacy is not the next persons. And everyone has their own idea of what romance means to them. So don’t count out ‘non traditional’ honeymoon locations.
Some couples may feel like they have enough privacy in a busy resort, in more rustic settings, on the high seas or even in a theme park location. And romance is what happens between the two of you regardless of what destination you choose.
The important thing is to pick something that will allow you the opportunity to be yourselves and enjoy the time spent together.
Capture the Memories
Preserving the precious memories of your honeymoon is important. You can invest in a good quality camera, but the phones on your camera have come a long way. Just make sure you use them.
You can also hire a professional photographer to capture those magical moments as well.
From candid snapshots to professionally arranged photo shoots, these visual memories will allow you to relive the romance and joy of your honeymoon for years to come.
We chose to do a formal pic while on the ship that we currently have framed in our home while we used our phones for all our other pictures. We were able to take some unique shots that I have used over the last few years on social media for different things.
Hot tip, if you can create a shared album between the two of you, then it will be easier to have all pics in one location and it won’t matter who’s phone is used to take the pic. This came in handy for us.
Conclusion
I have shared some tips to help you plan a honeymoon that will surpass your wildest dreams. From choosing the perfect ‘romantic’ destination to creating a personalized itinerary, with your travel advisors assistance. I’m sure you will be on your journey to create the honeymoon of your dreams.
Planning an unforgettable honeymoon requires thoughtful consideration, meticulous planning, and attention to detail. All which can be done by your travel advisor to free you up to worry about other things.
By defining your vision, selecting the perfect destination, working with a travel advisor, creating a personalized itinerary, prioritizing privacy and romance, and capturing the memories, you’ll be well on your way to experiencing the honeymoon of your dreams.
Current wisdom can be little more than fads that don’t stand the test of time. Many won’t even get you where you want to go. The good news is, you can absolutely have the honeymoon of your dreams.
You just need the right roadmap.
Embrace the journey, savor every moment, and let love be the guiding force behind your unforgettable honeymoon.
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All pics in this post are from our honeymoon, 15 day Hawaiian Cruise.
Below, Left to Right: Waimea Canyon, Deck of Emerald Princess, Kilauea Caldera, Pacific Ocean
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